“No one realizes how beautiful it is to travel until he comes home and rests his head on his old, familiar pillow.” – Lin Yutang
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
It's December
I've been trying to imagine what it will be like when I finally lay eyes on him after many, many months of being separate from him. Will it be bittersweet as I always believed it would be, since we will be separate again for another month before I return to him in the new year? Will it be romantic just like the movies, where I run into his arms and he catches me and kisses me while spinning me round in circles? But what if he acts coldly and differently? He's always told me that he normally can't be as crazy and bubbly as he was in the US. That public display of behaviour seems to be frowned upon there is something unfamiliar to most people there. Will he coldly just hug me and then try to act like a grown-up? It does sound harsh. But no matter what happens, I just hope it will be the most perfect reunion to a long, arduous, and painful wait.
Friday, November 25, 2011
Korean university students - do they really have it tough?
The first thing that came to mind was how a student could be driven to do such things! But from my prior knowledge of just how competitive and important on all levels education is to students and achieve high marks to make it into the country's top institutions, this student must have been driven to the limit where just might have not been able to take it any longer. According to the article, after the student had revealed that he had gotten a low mark (actually, his marks had been considered very good), his mother had beaten him up with a baseball bat and a golf club for many hours and was subsequent to several abuses such as being denied food. Of course, I am not agreeing that killing his mother was the logical solution, unless he was in a situation where his life was at stake. But with cases like these, how students are pressured throughout their entire life in order to get these soaring marks that will help get them accepted in prestigious universities like Seoul National University, Yonsei University or Ewha University, what these students must be going through, placing their life's worth in these entrance exams that will determine what universities they would be eligible can be so foreign to people who live in other countries.
In relation to this topic, I read an article explaining how and why South Korean universities were so poorly ranked in the world. In the paper, reviews and peer assessments by students were part of the judging criteria on opinions of South Korean universities did not have high rankings in the world, considering the intensive education model that children follow up to their last year of middle school. After such intensive pre-college preparations, students see first and second year university as a means of repaying for all the hard work they did. Some students even went to confessing that barely any studying is done. Also, seniors get permission frequently to miss out on large amounts of class times, just to be able to travel to some other city to attend an interview. This is even when the student has not finished his last year nor has graduated. Wow, these university students seem to have it so easy. When you compare it to universities of other countries, particularly in Western countries, university classes or what is sometimes referred to as contact-hours are significantly lesser than those of universities in Asia. However, this kind of study mode requires many hours of pre-studying and out of class readings. In a way, I feel that this kind of study mode takes on a more mature and therefore independent way of studying, of self-improvement all done by the student himself. Furthermore, discrimination with foreign teachers, which include lesser wages and limited access and participation with the faculty and staff, makes it unattractive for long-term stays.
It would be very interesting to write an essay about the differences of higher education between Western countries and East Asian countries. What do you think is the better kind of higher education? I know people have their own preferences, but if you were to put yourself in the shoes of, say, a politician with power to do higher education reforms, what would you do?
Monday, November 21, 2011
강남구
What to give your boyfriend for Christmas?
There are some kinds of people who really don't like or mind receiving gifts. I think most guys seem to act this way whenever they receive something from their girlfriend. I know for a fact that my Dad is like this sometimes. Rather than receiving gifts, my Dad seems to prefer being the one to give the gifts (no complaints there for me). But going back to my situation, this is where I am having a bit of a problem. I'm unsure of whether whatever gift I give him might be too girly. I also don't want to give him something that declares our love too flamboyantly. I did read a suggestion of getting your boyfriend tickets to something, which I think is brillant, but seems impossible for me to do. I did see some nice vintage-inspired toys in the department store, but I am thinking that it might give off a too-childish feel. However, I feel that he might rather like it.
I guess what really is troubling me ia getting something fot him that he will truly and genuinely like. I should continue this search for the right gift, and taking advantage of the upcoming christmas shopping nights this week.
Saturday, November 19, 2011
Lost in Translation... literally!
Friday, November 18, 2011
Samsung Galaxy Note
This mobile phone/tablet is definitely worth checking out. I'll be really interested in looking at the benchmarks of this phone, particularly how long the battery will last.
Thursday, November 17, 2011
11.11.11 Millenium Pepero Day
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
Booklist
Edited by Youna Kim
2. Consumption in Asia: Lifestyle and Identities (New Rich in Asia) (Paperback)
Edited by Beng-Huat Chua
3. A History of East Asia: From the Origins of Civilization to the Twenty-First Century (Paperback)
By (author) Charles Holcombe
4. Understanding Australia's Neighbours: An Introduction to East and Southeast Asia (Paperback)
By (author) Nick Knight, By (author) Michael Heazle
Chiffon, be mine.
Despite the advice of my boyfriend to save money and not buy things anymore, I finally bought the navy blue chiffon dress. For $45, I am finally able to be at peace of mind. Fashion-wise, I know I've made a wise decision in buying it, since I don't have a dress like it at all. However, considering the tight position I am in in terms of saving up, that's where I made a mistake. But I can guarantee myself that this will be my last purchase. The only things I will be spending on is public transport and Starbucks. From this point on, I really will hold my boyfriend's advice as my top priority to keep.
민규, 당신들을 것입니다. ^^
Tuesday, November 15, 2011
Cutest Youtube comment
There is life... in North Korea
Throughout all these state problems and isolation from the world, normal life persists in North Korea. I found an interesting slideshow of images of North Korean life taken by David Guttenfelder for the New York Times.
http://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2011/11/09/world/asia/20111109-NKOREA-GOBIG.html?ref=asia#1
What really surprised me is that if you were to tour North Korea, pre-bookings are mandatory. In addition, once you are actually there, you will always be accompanied by one or two official tour guides who will show you to selected attractions and tell you all you need to know, provided that it does not diminish their ruler's image.
Also, there is a book that tells of the normal lives of people living in North Korea. Written by Barbara Demick, Nothing to Envy seems to be about normal daily life that still persists in the country despite the strictly sanctioned government and the stereotyped image of troubled North Korean. I have not read it yet, but it seems to be an engrossing and interesting read for all those interested in East Asian studies or anything about Korea (both South and North).
Friday, November 11, 2011
Navy chiffon dress!
Thursday, November 10, 2011
쇼핑... 가자
My shopping list at the moment is quite on the expensive side.
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
Chiffon chic
Sunday, November 6, 2011
가을
어쨌든, 가을에는 한국을 방문하고 싶습니다. 나 자신이 공중에서 화려한 나뭇잎을 던지고 상상하실 수 있습니다. 내 남자 친구와 공원에 누워.